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Community Support: Either You Lived It—Or You Love Someone Who Did

Not everyone is a survivor, but everyone knows one. If you’ve been searching for a real way to help, this is it.

Our Partner Crests aren’t just badges—they’re commitments. Community Supporters keep the lights on. Healing Partners fund tools that restore clarity and peace. Survivor Champions underwrite the lifelines: Survivor Stories, the Healing Library, and on-the-ground resources.

When you wear a crest, you’re telling survivors: “You’re not alone. We’ve built a place for you.” This movement turns compassion into infrastructure—recurring support, practical help, steady community.

Choose your lane and step in. A little every month becomes a lot when we move together. The difference shows up in real people’s lives—today.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Pick your tier—Community Supporter, Healing Partner, or Survivor Champion.
  • Set a recurring monthly gift (even $5 matters) and save your confirmation.
  • Add the crest to your profile or bio and link to the page so others can join.
  • Invite one ally: “Stand with me—pick a crest and help fund real healing.”

Journal prompts:

  • Which tier best matches my capacity and heart right now?
  • Who in my circle would gladly stand with survivors if I asked?
  • What impact do I want my support to make this month?

Want to tell your story on Survivor Stories Saturday? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

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Survivor Stories: Faith’s Journey

Every Saturday, we lift up a survivor’s voice. This week, it’s Faith—her story premieres at 3 PM ET on NOW TV.

Survivor Stories isn’t about spectacle. It’s about truth—raw, unfiltered, and powerful enough to light the path for others. Faith’s journey is one of resilience in the face of relentless manipulation, a reminder that no matter how dark the smear, healing is possible.

When survivors speak, lies collapse. Shame loses its grip. The act of testimony transforms personal pain into collective power. Faith’s courage isn’t just hers—it’s a spark for everyone who’s still searching for their way out.

Mark your calendar. Watch with open ears. Share the link with someone who needs proof they aren’t alone. Because every time a survivor tells the truth, another chain breaks.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Set a reminder for Saturday at 3 PM ET to watch Faith’s Survivor Story on NOW TV.
  • Write one sentence of encouragement you’d give Faith—and then turn it inward toward yourself.
  • Share the Survivor Stories page link privately with someone who may need it.
  • Spend 5 minutes browsing the Healing Library for resources connected to your journey.

Journal prompts:

  • What part of my story am I ready to say out loud?
  • How does hearing another survivor’s journey change the way I see my own?
  • Who in my life needs to hear that they aren’t alone?

Want to tell your story on Survivor Stories Saturday? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

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Tech Skills for Survivors: Tools That Build Freedom

Abusers count on your confusion. We count on your capacity to learn. Tech isn’t just gadgets—it’s leverage, privacy, and escape routes.

When you understand the basics—passwords, backups, screenshots, calendars—gaslighting loses power. Evidence gets organized. Boundaries get enforced. Independence becomes practical, not theoretical.

You don’t need to be “good with computers.” You need a few repeatable moves that protect your accounts, preserve your proof, and help you communicate on your terms. That’s what we’ll teach on Oct 15.

Show up. Bring your questions. Leave with a simple setup that makes your world safer and your story stronger.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Install a password manager and change 3 high-risk passwords (email, phone carrier, bank).
  • Turn on two-factor authentication (2FA) for your main email and social accounts.
  • Create a “Receipts” folder: save 3 screenshots with timestamps + short captions.
  • Set a calendar reminder for Oct 15 (Tech Webinar) with the RSVP email attached.

Journal prompts:

  • Where does tech make me feel anxious—and what one skill would reduce that today?
  • Which account, if secured, would give me the most peace right now?
  • What proof do I already have that I can learn fast when it matters?

Want to tell your story on Survivor Stories Saturday? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

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Covert Narcissist: Flying Monkeys and Outsourced Attacks

The covert narcissist rarely dirties their own hands. Instead, they send others—the “flying monkeys”—to do the work of confusion, intimidation, and smear.

This tactic keeps their mask clean while you look like the problem. Friends, coworkers, even family can be recruited to question you, corner you, or pressure you back into silence. It’s manipulation by proxy—and it’s meant to leave you isolated and outnumbered.

But the truth is this: those monkeys only carry weight if you keep responding. You don’t need to fight every messenger. You need to recognize the pattern, cut off their access to your energy, and build a circle that knows your side of the story.

Every time you refuse to chase the lies, every time you step back from the performance, you weaken the narcissist’s strategy. Your power is in clarity, not in combat. Let your evidence, your calm, and your truth dismantle the show they’ve staged.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • List who delivers the “messages” for the narcissist—recognize the pattern.
  • Draft one neutral response line: “Thank you, I’ll address this directly with them.”
  • Save receipts of indirect attacks (texts, social posts, voicemails).
  • Choose one ally and brief them calmly on the pattern you’ve noticed.

Journal prompts:

  • Who have I noticed repeating their words for them?
  • What would it feel like to disengage from the messengers?
  • Which ally can I trust to hear my truth without distortion?

Want to tell your story on Survivor Stories Saturday? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

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Confidence vs. Gaslighting: Reclaiming Self-Trust

They told you that you couldn’t trust yourself. Every time you felt certain, they twisted the scene until you doubted your own eyes.

That’s what gaslighting does—it erodes confidence, brick by brick, until self-doubt becomes your second skin. You stop trusting your memory, your instincts, even your heartbeat. But hear this: their distortion doesn’t erase your truth. Confidence can be rebuilt, and it starts by choosing your own voice over their script.

Confidence is not arrogance. It’s the quiet strength of saying, “I know what I saw. I know how I felt.” The narcissist wants you to surrender that certainty, because your clarity is their undoing. When you anchor to your truth, their power collapses.

Every time you record what happened, every time you rehearse your boundary out loud, every time you repeat your truth until it feels solid again—you are reforging confidence. Step by step, you are taking back the one weapon they could never hold forever: your belief in yourself.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Write down three moments this week where you doubted yourself—then record the facts exactly as they happened.
  • Stand in front of a mirror and rehearse one confidence line: “I trust what I know. My reality is valid.”
  • Call or text one ally: “I need a reality check. Here’s what happened. Do you see it too?”
  • Create a “Confidence Folder” on your phone or computer—start saving logs, screenshots, and affirmations in one place.

Journal prompts:

  • When did I first learn to doubt myself—and whose voice taught me that?
  • What evidence today proves my reality is solid?
  • What does confidence in my own voice feel like in my body?

Want to tell your story on Survivor Stories Saturday? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

Reclaiming Narrative: Your Voice Is the Exit

They built a story where you were the problem. You survived it—and now you’re writing the ending.

Narcissistic abuse thrives on silence and confusion. When you speak your truth—calm, specific, consistent—their version collapses. Recovery isn’t loud; it’s steady. It’s the daily practice of choosing clarity over chaos.

Your voice doesn’t need permission. It needs rhythm. A simple 60-second truth spoken out loud can turn the lights back on inside your mind. One boundary, one ally, one repeated fact—this is how momentum starts and lies lose their grip.

Today is not about convincing the crowd. It’s about aligning with yourself. When your words, boundaries, and actions match, you walk out of their story and into your own. That’s the exit—and it’s been inside you the whole time.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Write a 60-second truth: what happened, what it cost, what you’re doing now.
  • Record a calm voice note reading it; save the file to a “Narrative” folder.
  • Choose one boundary for the weekend and tell an ally who will hold you to it.
  • If ready, email your 60-second truth to be considered for NOW TV.

Journal prompts:

  • What truth am I ready to say out loud—without defending it?
  • Which boundary will protect that truth this weekend?
  • Who is my steady ally for accountability?

Want to share your story on NOW TV? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

Smear Campaigns: They Need the Crowd More Than You

When gaslighting fails, they go public. That’s the smear. Suddenly whispers, rumors, and side-eyes become their weapon of choice.

Smear campaigns are designed to isolate you, to recruit the crowd, and to make you spend your energy defending instead of healing. The narcissist thrives on the spectacle—they want the drama. But here’s the secret: you don’t need the crowd. You only need your evidence, your calm, and your circle.

Every lie they spread is just noise until you answer it with proof. Every whisper dies when you refuse to fuel it. Your job isn’t to outshout them—it’s to stand steady, repeat your truth once, and let your actions do the rest.

This is how smear campaigns collapse: not when they stop talking, but when you stop chasing. You hold the facts. You hold the receipts. You hold the right to disengage. That’s real power, and it’s yours to claim.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Draft a neutral 3-sentence statement you can reuse if needed.
  • Collect third-party screenshots with timestamps and URLs.
  • Repeat your brief once, then disengage—no over-explaining.
  • Privately share your summary with 1–2 allies you trust.

Journal prompts:

  • Who in my life needs facts vs. who only wants drama?
  • What am I officially done explaining?
  • Where will I spend my energy instead of defending myself?

Want to share your story on NOW TV? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

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Gaslighting: Protecting Their Reality

When children are gaslit, they don’t just question facts — they learn to distrust themselves. That wound can follow them for life if we don’t intervene.

Narcissists twist even a child’s small mistakes into “proof” they can’t trust their memory. They interrupt, override, and inject doubt until the child believes silence is safer than truth. This is not discipline. This is erasure. And it leaves scars deeper than we see.

Your role as protector is not to argue with the abuser in front of your child. It’s to anchor your child back to reality with calm repetition, validation, and safety. Children heal when they hear: “I believe you. Here’s what I saw. Let’s figure it out together.”

Every time you create a micro-win — a three-minute game where the child succeeds and you record it, a test paper saved with their name in their own hand — you’re building evidence against the lie. You’re teaching them: “Your eyes and your voice matter.” That is the antidote to gaslighting.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Mirror and validate: “I hear you. Here’s what I saw. Let’s test it together.”
  • Turn learning into a micro-win game (3 minutes) and record the success.
  • Save school artifacts — assignments, drawings, tests — in a dated folder.
  • Script one interference line: “Please let her answer on her own.”

Journal prompts:

  • What micro-win can I celebrate with my child this week?
  • What does safety look like for my child in daily life?
  • Where can I step in with a protective script?

Want to share your story on NOW TV? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

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Gaslighting: Weaponized Doubt in Public Spaces

Public gaslighting cuts deeper. They don’t just twist your words behind closed doors—they put on a show so others question you too.

In courtrooms, workplaces, even churches, narcissists perform certainty while you shrink into silence. That’s the design. They rely on the crowd’s eyes, the stage, and the pressure to make you doubt yourself in real time. It’s not just personal—it’s tactical.

This is why you freeze. Why your heart races while they stay smooth. But understand this: their performance doesn’t equal truth. Facts are facts, whether whispered by you or shouted by them. Your task is to ground yourself in those facts until their theater no longer shakes you.

You don’t have to out-shout them. You don’t have to match their bravado. All you need is clarity. And clarity comes from preparation—short, repeatable truths that anchor you no matter what room you’re standing in.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Draft a two-sentence fact summary: what happened + the impact. Keep it reusable.
  • Practice saying: “For the record, here are the facts and dates.” Neutral, calm, steady.
  • Note third-party mentions — write down who was present, what they heard, and when.
  • Create a one-page brief of events in bullet form to bring into future meetings.

Journal prompts:

  • When did I notice the room turn against me?
  • What facts stand even if I never defend them again?
  • What does my “two-sentence truth” sound like today?

Want to share your story on NOW TV? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

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Gaslighting: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Conditioned.

They told you it’s in your head. They insisted you misheard, misremembered, misunderstood. You weren’t confused—you were being controlled.

Gaslighting is a weapon designed to erase your memory and replace it with theirs. They rewrite the scene, and suddenly you’re left doubting your own senses. That’s not an accident—it’s the point. Doubt becomes the cage they keep you in.

But here’s the truth: your body remembers. Your spirit remembers. And the first act of rebellion is to write down what really happened—because their script doesn’t get to be the final word. This is where healing begins: by reclaiming the story that belongs to you.

You are not broken for questioning yourself. You were targeted. And now you are rising. Every fact you capture, every line you refuse to debate, every ally you trust—that’s you shattering the illusion of their control. This is the work of warriors, and you’re already doing it.

Do this today (10–15 minutes each):

  • Start a Truth Log — date, time, what happened, exact words, how your body felt; keep it in one folder.
  • Rehearse this line: “I won’t debate my reality. We can discuss facts or end this conversation.”
  • Collect receipts — screenshot texts/emails, save with timestamps, and label filenames with “GL-”.
  • Ping one ally: “Can I sanity-check something? Here’s what happened vs. what was said.”

Journal prompts:

  • When the incident happened, what did my body feel first?
  • What are the facts versus their narrative?
  • One boundary I will enforce this week is…

Want to share your story on NOW TV? Email [email protected].

#NOWMovement #DomesticNarcissisticAbuse #HealingTogether #SurvivorStories #StayPowerful

Stay powerful—your healing starts here.

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